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Why People with Chronic Illness Rarely Take Your Advice Well

People with a chronic illness live with their illness like Olympic athletes live and breathe their events day in and day out.  Except for one major detail, we didn’t choose to be chronically ill and we don’t love it.  We … Continue reading

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Darkest Days 3

If you are just joining, this will make a lot more sense if you go back and read 1 and 2. A couple years later I wanted to peacefully close the door on my ex.  I still had love in … Continue reading

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Darkest Days 2

If you are just joining, please go back and read 1.  This will make more sense. Regardless of my many surgeries and complications life continued whether I did or not, as many of you know.  My partner at the time … Continue reading

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Darkest Days 1

I’ve been in terrible pain for a few weeks now, in addition to all my usual pain.  I have a peripheral stimulator in my abdomen that usually controls nerve pain caused by a complication from a surgery to fix an inguinal hernia.  … Continue reading

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