Monthly Archives: January 2014

I Finally Met a Scot in Scotland!

Alright, that settles it! I’m cold! Cold! Cold! Cold! Brrrrrr. It appears that we have hit winter; Scotland style and it ain’t pretty. I have already broken out the heavy artillery, silk long johns, polar fleece liner to my coat, … Continue reading

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It’s a lie! You aren’t Addicted.

The media, our friends, our family, even our doctors tell us that long term use of opioid pain killers causes addiction.  I bet there isn’t a single person with chronic pain who hasn’t been treated like some twitchy drug-seeking addict … Continue reading

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Santa is Selling Kilts in Edinburgh!

Life Before Chronic Pain This weekend we made our very first trip to Edinburgh.  My mind was full of castles, cute shops, good food…all the things a tourist such as myself could possibly want.  Well it didn’t quite work out … Continue reading

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Suicide is Not About You

Warning: This is a candid piece about a difficult subject.  Please understand I am not advocating suicide nor is this a cry for help.  I’m encouraging understanding and compassion. The chronically ill suffer from severe depression, grief, loss, and a … Continue reading

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What Do You Mean You Won’t Tell Me What to Think?

I firmly believe that my brain has melted, drained out my right ear and made a wretched mess on the living room floor.  What I have left is the brain of an infant that is overwhelmingly distracted and entertained by … Continue reading

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My Shoes Fit Funny

My alarm goes off a half hour before I actually need to get out of bed.  That probably isn’t that strange, everybody likes the snooze button, but that isn’t the reason I set mine early.  I need the extra time … Continue reading

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A Happier New Year

I usually do a review at the end of each year.  Take the time to think about what has happened, what I’ve learned, and what I can do or make better next year.  However, looking back on this year seemed … Continue reading

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